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Remember to look for pronouns in a statement. Pronouns such as we, us, our, indicate that
more than one person was involved. Pronouns also give us responsibility. Sometimes people don't
want to take responsibility for their actions. We often see this when people make statements using
the pronouns you or we instead of I. "There are real definite lines that you do not cross." "You try to avoid these things." "We will make sure that doesn't happen again."
Another thing to look for in a statement is missing pronouns. In this type of statement, the
subject will tell you what happened and what he did without directly referring to himself. Instead
of spreading the blame by using plural pronouns he will not use any pronouns. For example, a
subject was asked what he did on a particular day. He respond by saying,
"Woke up around 8:00 in the morning. Fixed breakfast and watched a little tv. At 10:00,
called Tony Johnson to see what he was doing. Met Tony at the bowling alley at 11:00.
Bowled until about 2:00. Returned home, stayed in the house and watched the baseball
game."
Looking at this statement we find there is only one pronoun, he. What is missing is
the pronoun I. The subject could have said, "I woke up around 8:00 in the morning. I fixed
breakfast and watched a little tv. At 10:00, I called Tony Johnson to see what he doing."
However, the subject chose not to mention himself. Some might say that the subject I
in this sentence is understood. In statement analysis, nothing is understood. We only consider what the
person tells us or doesn't tell us. By not using the pronoun I, this may mean the subject didn't
do what he wants us to think he did. It can also mean the subject isn't telling us everything
that happened.
The missing I can also be a sign that the subject is reluctant to talk about what happened.
The subject may be placed in a situation where he has to talk. So, he tells us what he did but he
leaves out the I to distance himself from his actions. Former President Clinton did this a few years ago
when scratches appeared on his face. The press hounded him as to what had happened, but the
President wouldn't comment. Speculation was that the First Lady had scratched him with her nails
or had thrown something at him. Finally, President Clinton came out with the following statement:
"I got this playing with my daughter I'm ashamed to say. Rolling around acting like a child
again. I reaffirmed that I'm not a kid anymore."
There are three sentences in his statement. The first and last sentences begin with the
pronoun I. However, in the second sentence the I is missing. The President could have said, "I
was rolling around acting like a child again," but he chose not to use the pronoun I. Why is the I
missing? We find the answer in the first sentence. "I got this playing with my daughter I'm
ashamed to say." The President was embarrassed by what had happened. Therefore, when it
came time to actually describe the incident, he left himself out.
Using The Wrong Pronouns
In the middle 1970s, mysterious crop circles began to appear in southern England. These were
designs usually in a circular formation impressed upon fields of wheat, oats or barley. The
phenomenon progressed year by year moving across the ocean to the United States. By the late
1980s and early 1990s, country sides were adorned with geometrical figures imprinted on fields of
grain. Many people believed that these formations were created by flying saucers which had
landed in the fields. The idea that this was a hoax seemed impossible. There were hundreds of
crop circles. They seemed to appear rather quickly and on such a large scale. There were no
footprints leading to or going from the formations. Many people concluded that they must be of
an extraterrestrial origin.
In 1991, Doug Bower and Dave Chorley from Southhampton, England, admitted that they
had been making the crop figures for 15 years. It was something they had dreamed up one
night over a few drinks. They even demonstrated to the press how they performed their nocturnal
artwork. The circles which appeared in other countries were apparently copycat hoaxers.
It turns out though that we didn't have to wait 15 years to see that this was a hoax.
On one of their night time operations, Doug and Dave decided to leave a message.
In one of their circles they left the letters WEARENOTALONE. A quick
examination of the letters reveals the sentence "We are not alone." Some people thought this
was a sign of intelligent life. However, the only sign this statement was giving is that this
indeed was a hoax. If aliens had landed on our planet and were going to leave us a
message, it wouldn't say, "We are not alone." It would say, "
You are not alone." The pronouns give it away.
Congratulations! You are a winner.
We all get those sweepstakes notifications in the mail telling us that we have won a
large sum of money. Most people are skeptical that good fortune is coming their way. So, to
check it out they read the small print. However, you can tell what is going on by
reading the large print. The last winner's notification I received started out by saying,
"I am pleased to inform you that you are to receive a cash amount. We are currently
holding a corporate check in the amount of $5,000 and await the filing of your Winnings Claim form."
Pronouns show possession. The first sentence clearly states that I (you)
will receive a cash amount. Great. I can always use a few extra bucks. So, how much money am I
going to win? The second sentence mentions $5,000, but look at the pronouns in this sentence.
"We are holding a corporate check in the amount $5,000...." (I believe they
have a check in amount of $5,000.) "....and await the filing of your Winning
Claims form." (I believe they are waiting for me to return my Winning Claims form.) No where
does it state that this $5,000 is mine. What is missing is the pronoun you.
They didn't say, "We are currently holding your check" or "We are currently holding a corporate
check in the amount of $5,000 for you." By stating in the first sentence that I have
won some money, they are hoping I will believe that the $5,000 mentioned in the second
sentence is mine. Out of curiosity I read the small print. Odds are I am going to win $1.00!
